I know I haven’t written here in a while and I also know my
running has been taking a back seat to … well, everything from kids, school,
relocation – let’s just put it under the tag-word ‘life’.
Actually, I am not going to write about running in this post
either. Definitely put this under the
‘life’ category of my blog. You will be
pleased to know I won’t be giving you a run down of MY life at the moment
–which fluctuates to mundane and insane.
This is a general musing.
This is a musing about sex.
Before you all get excited and expect me to do a Krista on you, I am going to bring you down to Earth by informing you I am also including
Religion and Politics in this post. Yep,
I am the woman you DON’T invite to the dinner party because I will be the one who
brings up at least one, if not all, of the three taboo’s.
My post comes about from a couple of news articles I have
read recently. Yeah, I know you are
wondering at least one of two things: Either, ‘You read?’ or, ‘When are you
ever sober enough to read?’ Both are
very valid questions.
The first article is this: ‘Why Sex could be history’. It’s a book plug basically, but it highlights
the fact that in the future –potentially near future- sex will not be required
to have children. With the advent of
lab-grown sperm and eggs, along with artificial insemination, soon people
will not need the elements of life or the actual act of sex to have kids. Add in the fact that there is development of
‘Wombs for Men’ the factor of being female will also not be an issue.
The second article is this. ‘Republican Senate Nominee:Victims of ‘Legitimate Rape’ Don’t Get Pregnant’. Apart from the fact that clearly this guy
failed High School Biology and in my opinion is a “fruit-loop”, it is a fact
that Todd Akin is appealing to the Uber-conservative members of his political
party and State. Frankly the fact a man
wholly unconnected to the majority of his female voters, feels he has the right
to not only, shame women because of an act they had no control or desire for, but
then dictate what they can and can’t do with their bodies is frankly
repugnant. I find this man scary and I
find it even scarier when there are probably thousands –if not millions- of
people willing to agree with him.
The fact that Todd Akin is not alone in his views and that
his idea of abortion –and Sex- is not only promoted in his country, but
actively enforced in others, highlights one fact; politics, sex and religion are too closely
related.
It is usually at this point most commentators would point
the finger at Islamic countries in Africa and the Middle-East as the worst perpetrators. The subjugation of women and brutal treatment
for their actions in the name of Religion is so well documented that many
people wouldn’t look any further. I can see many conservative Christians in
many Western Countries saying, ”But that’s
Islam – they are heathens. We are
nothing like that. We follow Jesus and
have the true God. We are a democratic
country who honours and respects our women”.
Do you? Do you really?
This week, a Russian court sentenced three women to two years hard-labour for singing an ‘anti-government’ song in Moscow’s main Cathedral. They were trying to highlight
the fact that the government and the Russian Orthodox Church are too closely
linked in secular Russia. The fact that
Patriarch Kirill promoted President Putin as a man from God and members of the
church should vote for him, may give the group 'Pussy Riot' good cause to make
that claim. Admittedly, the way they
group protested was probably not the wisest thing they have ever done. Regardless of the country you are in, a
public political protest within a Church –of any Religion- is going to get you
arrested. However, the very political
nature of the trial and the harsh sentencing shows, that the incident was more used to silence political enemies, than a conventional ‘slap on the wrists’ because they had
done something stupid and upset a few people.
The sad fact is, no matter how secular a country claims to
be, it is increasingly obvious that politics and religion are too closely
connected. As such it is inevitable that sex get’s mixed up in there somewhere.
The reason sex get’s mixed up with religion and consequently
politics is all down to procreation.
Centauries ago, when the infant mortality rate was high, the Church
needed members and the best way to do that was to get your congregation going at
it like rabbits. Every child was needed
–regardless if you had enough family resources to feed them- because in a way our species
depended on it. Those in charge of the church were men. Find a way to subjugate
half of the population, guarantee your position, as well as increasing your attendance
on Sunday and frankly you are onto a winner.
It makes sense in a primal, medieval way. I don't like it, but I understand it.
However, we don’t have the same population crisis we had
five hundred years ago. In fact we have
the opposite problem. The Church is
still telling us to keep producing the faithful, when in fact we are running
out of food. Not just food – water,
land, fuel are now becoming a scarce commodity.
We are wiping ourselves out because the ‘Nuclear 2.4 Children family’
was what was demanded of our society and we happily continued to give it.
So now we are in this quagmire of views. We have religion –all religions- claiming
themselves as the keepers of peoples souls, dictating that they need more
children, whilst they are intricately entwined with the politicians who legislate to ensure they
get that –regardless if it’s in your best interests or if in fact, it’s
something you want.
However, what happened if you took sex out of the
equation? What if sex wasn’t needed to produce children? If a bit of nookie in the
middle of the night is they way you want to create your family then cool – but
what if it wasn’t? What if you were a single
woman who wanted kids? How about a Gay couple?
What about a single Man? If
having a family was what you wanted, but you didn’t want a hetro-sexual
relationship to get it, what would happen to the church then? What would happen to the arguments put
forward by politicians regarding who can and can’t have equal legal rights, just
because they can’t produce children in the relationship they are currently in?
Perhaps that the reason why there is political angst on
homosexual marriage or the lack of tax/personal benefits given to single
people. Where you have more benefits if you are a married couple with kids. Couples outside of conventional ideals are always deemed less
important than a hetro-sexual married couple because they can’t produce kids.
Yet, if any one could have kids -if there were no biological
difficulties in having children, what would happen then? What would happen if
NO-ONE were allowed to have children in the ‘conventional’ manner? That at the age of 35 you were tested for mental competency and allocated a
laboratory produced kid to raise – regardless of your gender or sexual
orientation. Admittedly, the “Logan’s
Run” world I am painting is very unlikely – but it puts the question; If
hetro-sexual relationships weren’t necessary to produce children, would the
same focus be placed on them in the spiritual and political landscape?
If sex were taken out of the equation, would the link
between state and church be weaker? Would
that be a benefit rather than a curse?
What do you think?
I have to admit I am not sure where I was going with this
long-winded and meandering post. It was
just an intellectual connection I made whilst having a shower. If you are offended, then tough - just don’t
tune in next time. If you think I am intellectually wrong, then enlighten me. I am just a blogger who has no idea what she is saying half the time; I am always willing to learn.
Thanks for listening – feel free to ignore the last 30
minutes of your life. Now go grab a
beer. Here's tothe call to alcohol and the practising the act of expanding of our species - just make sure you practise responsibly ;)
Edited from the original because I am essentially a journalistic hack who is lousy at copy-editing. When I realised I could hardly make sense of some of it, I guessed you guys would be in a similar situation.
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